Many people think they’re struggling with desire, when what they’re really struggling with is permission.

This women-only session explores how shame, expectation and internalised rules can quietly limit what we allow ourselves to feel or want. Rather than asking what’s wrong, it invites a different question: Where did I learn to hold myself back?

Many women believe they are “low desire” when they are actually disconnected from sensation.

This women-only session explores pleasure beyond performance, looking at how pressure, expectation and misunderstanding arousal can dull our experience of desire. Rather than focusing on doing sex “right”, it invites curiosity about what the body actually responds to.

A reflective, non-performative evening centred on sensation as information, not achievement, with no pressure to share.